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12/7/06 03:53 pm - Christmas Lists

Cheryl:

-Slippers that look like flip-flops, any color, size 10-11 or XL
-Dove chocolate
-Turtles candy
-White ankle sport socks
-anything with penguins or polar bears
-gift card, Dress Barn or Walmart

Alex:

-gift cards to Best Buy or Microcenter
-Ferro-Rocher chocolate

Ed:

-Kansas State University flag
-NASCAR flag (www.racelinedirect.com)
-gift card-Borders, Half Price Books
-CD's

12/7/05 09:24 am - Today

Well, it is snowing in KC. Expecting several inches accumulation, so driving will be fun! I like winter, but only because it makes spring and summer more precious.

11/30/05 09:13 am

I liked Heather's map of the states. She suggested that I do one, so here it is. 40 down and 10 to go.



create your own personalized map of the USA
or check out ourCalifornia travel guide

11/29/05 06:23 am - Books and Such

I have read a few new books lately. Jimmy Carter's "Our Endangered Values" is an excellent read. He discusses the rise of fundamentalist Christian's influence on American politics. The details are more eloquent than I can express, but the major tenant is that political give and take, compromise, is lost when on takes a position that one believes is God's exact position. How can one go against God's word and retain your religious values? Carter argues that religious beliefs must inform political positions, not BE political positions. This notion is tied to the abortion debate with a great deal of logic. As one would expect, Carter also addresses America's relationship with other nations, per his work with the Carter Center. He relays that our current position as the only superpower has lead to jingoistic, arrogant conduct across the world, with a loss of international support for our country. The applications to the invasion of Iraq are clearly written and useful for informed discussion of that situation.

Would also recommend "The Libertarian Reader", a compliation of readings edited by David Boaz. The libertarian movement's basic writings are included, spanning information from Lao-Tzu, the Bible, through the John Locke, the Federalist Papers, to Adam Smith and Milton Friedman. These cogent arguments nicely cover basic tenants, especially the need for a nonintrusive government in the lives of its citizens. The discussions of protection of private property, as a core value of society, are particularly relevant, given the recent Supreme Court ruling in "Kelo v. City of New London". This 5-4 ruling allows a city to condemn private property for the use of developers to use the property for their own profit, not for public use. This encroachment appears to be in direct violation of the 5th Amendment. Libertarians would point to this as a continuing erosion of private property rights and the overreach of government in general.

Several other readings of interest were about the libertarian idea(l) that people will successfully self-organize, without the heavy hand of government forcing cooperation. The Chinese philosopher, Lao-Tzu, writing in the 6th Century B.C., is quoted:

The more prohibitions there are,
The poorer the people will be.

The more laws are promulgated,
The more thieves and bandits there will be.

Therefore a sage has said:
So long as I "do nothing" the people will of themselves be transformed.
So long as I love quietude, will of themselves go straight.
So long as I act only by inactivity the people of themselves will become prosperous.

Of all of the readings, all interesting and crisply written, this quote is perhaps the most clear in capturing overall libertarian philosophy. Stay out of people's business, and the people will prosper. I think government can do positive things for its people, but this reader is a good source for alternative ideas of a free market, self governed society. Not the easiest read in the world, but picking through some of the readings is most challenging and rewarding.

Next read is fiction, "Pastwatch", by Orson Scott Card.

11/25/05 10:11 am - Thanksgiving

What a wonderful day yesterday was! Rachel's cheesecake was fantastic. James, Kachina and those cute kids came over for dinner. I hope they liked the vegetarian fare we made. Hopefully the Tofurkey, stuffing and gravy fit the vegetarian bill. Teddy was full of energy and just too cute! Miss Ellie is growing like crazy and is threatening to "outcute" Theodore. Cheryl came over after work and helped me finish and organize the meal. So appreciated. Got so busy, I forgot to put out the canned cranberry sauce, but don't think anyone noticed too much. James seemed thoroughly full, so we will call it good enough. We missed Heather, but know that she had a great holiday in Celebration! I hope my kids will always remember how much their Mom loved Thanksgiving and getting together for the holiday.

Well, back to work at planning business activites for next year. I have two interest areas to puruse, Adult ADD group and increasing my marital wellness business.

11/22/05 11:09 am - Some Stuff

Today is a memory day for baby boomers. On this date 42 years ago, President John F. Kennedy was murdered in Dallas, Texas. It was a horrible shock to everyone. I watched the news as much as possible and will never forget the funeral procession in Washington, with the riderless horse and the black caission that also carried Abraham Lincoln. Everyone's youth is the most important of course, but it was a more impactful event that the Challenger explosion or other recent major events that people remember. I hope I never have to see another presidential assassination. In 2039, more records of the event are to be released. Not one to see conspiracies everywhere, but the official Warren Commission report is not the complete story. Hope those that are still alive at that time will take the time to study the new information, though its unlikely anything too damning will be released, even at that point. My best guess is that the Soviet Union and rogue CIA agents were directly involved in the planning and execution of the murder. Hopefully am wrong about that, but I don't think so.

Heather is hanging in in Orlando, with some job interviews, Rachel is suffering from the flu, and James loves his new job.

11/17/05 04:21 pm - Today

Rachel completed her GED test yesterday. She has been working hard and I know it will go well for her. Her first cake at her decorating class was a Santa Claus cake, it is very cute! I like that she is looking for places to use her artistic talent. Hope she will follow through with culinary classes @ JCCC. Rachel is going with Candice to the new Harry Potter movie tomorrow. She sure likes her Harry Potter. I need to talk with James, as I haven't seen him for a few days. Hope his new job is going well.

11/16/05 09:54 am - Florida and Stuff

Just got back from Orlando last night. Heather moved to Orlando and I had the pleasure of taking the Penske truck from KC to Orlando with her. We put Heather's car on a trailer behind the truck, so it was fun driving. We left last Saturday about noon and drove to Paducah, Kentucky for the night, arriving about 8:00 p.m. The next day we left Paducah at 7:00 a.m. A beautiful drive through Kentucky and Tennessee, going through Nashville via I 24. We continued on through Tennessee, past Lookout Mountain and into Georgia. We ran into Atlanta Falcons football traffic in Atlanta, so that was a genuine mess for a while. Our Sunday run ended in Valdosta, GA, so we didn't quite make Florida. Monday morning saw us leaving Valdosta and heading for the Ronald Reagan Turnpike, the direct route to Orlando. We made Orlando, and Celebration, Florida about noon.

It was great fun having that long trip with Heather. She seemed very excited to get to Orlando. Her friends Matt and Jasmine provided a warm welcome. Heather will be staying with them for a while, while she finds work and an apartment. Heather has a job interview already, for this morning. Sure it will go well. I am very pround of Heather for taking a chance to live her dream and move to Orlando.

We got Heather a Tom-Tom GPS system. Too cool for words. Its better than the ads! It will definitely help her get around in the new city. If you are thinkming of getting one, do it. Well worth the money. Well, back to work.

6/1/05 10:20 pm - Tired

Went to see the Royals/Yankees last night. Our Royals won!! Stayed up very late, am going to bed now.

6/1/05 03:05 am - Deep Throat

Well, we finally learn that the true identity of Watergate's mystery informant, "Deep Throat", is Mark Felt, former FBI deputy. There is so much to say about this event, but I only want to make one suggestion at this point. After 33 years and the last loose end now tied, can we PLEASE retire ". . . gate" to indicate a scandal? Only those pushing middle age and beyond lived through the Watergate events; only journalistic laziness keeps this shorthand alive. I like "American Idol Vote" Example: The subject of the U.S. invasion of Iraq can be called "George Bush Idolvote". Your suggestions are welcome.

5/31/05 07:38 am - Weekend

We are back from the trip to Western Kansas. Placed flowers on family graves in Atwood, Bird City and Clay Center. It was a sad trip, but it was good to see the Belleville family. Well, to work!

5/27/05 03:23 pm - Today

Well, its raining a little and kind of dark this afternoon, not unusual for the end of May. I took Rachel out for a while this afternoon, her school ended for the year today. She got lunch at Fazoli's and I stopped at the Cheesecake Factory to pick up a cheesecake to take to Barb tomorrow in Belleville. Got the Snicker's Bar something or other, hope she will appreciate it.

I have a gigantic stack of yard waste on the side of the garage. Dug up some trees growing along the side of the house. Am trying to decide if I want to put some kind of a backyard patio in. Have a tent type of structure that Loretta and I bought some time ago and I should do something with it.

Having a lot of fun with the private practice. I have some good clients, but not enough yet. Wish to be a better networker. Pricing a website to help with merchandising. Will keep you updated on these matters.

Well, I need to take Rachel over for her haircut and dye this afternoon, hope the blue hair turns out well.

5/26/05 09:54 am - Recent Things

I recently had an unusual experience for me. My first "Letter to the Editor" 'Senate vote ends debate on Bush nominee' was published on the MSNBC.com website http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4838957/

For two days, my first sentence was the lead in to the letters section of the website. Not sure what I had to say was too profound, but it was good to be heard. I have a better understanding of the power of blogs and the ability to add one's own voice to the mix.

My kids and I are going out to Atwood, Kansas this Memorial Day weekend to put flowers on Loretta's grave. Its been almost a year since her death, but it still seems unreal that she isn't with us. I am writing a book about our experiences with the sickness and death that I hope wil be useful to others; we worked really hard to do it right. It is also giving me a chance to say things that my children probably don't know about their mother and our life together. It is cathartic for me, as well.

Speaking of Recent Things, I have gotten to spend some time with my father and his wife Jean. They now live in Clifton, Kansas. We had been estranged for many years and it was good to get back together and see him again. Dad is in his eighties now, but I am glad to say his mind is razor sharp. Some physical limitations, macular degeneration limits his eyesight and he gets around slowly, but is the same man as always. My kids went the last time, he certainly enjoyed seeing them. Of course, grandson and great-grandson Theodore stole the show. I hope my digital pictures are ok-James has the camera and is trying to retrieve them for me.

I have been spending some time with a wonderful woman named Cheryl. It is so strange to me after being with Loretta for 26 years, but it is nice to have someone to go to movies and dinner with. Because of my father's remarriage and my subsequent estrangement from him, I am very concerned that my children not have any bad experiences. They have met Cheryl and think its at least ok, but we don't want anything negative for anyone involved. Cheryl has a fine son who attends KU. We all went to an Elton John concert here in Kansas City. What a fabulous show! Sir Elton performed for over two and a half hours-some great songs from the new album and a host of classic material as well.

1/29/05 09:00 am - Update

Hello, Live Journal. Well, I got a lot of my goals accomplished this week. The advertising efforts are started and going well. Am having fun with work and otherwise. Am setting production goals for work and backtracking to create the outcomes I want. I like working for myself. Seem to work harder and longer, but am getting more satisfaction. No one has objected to the pricing scheme yet, so far so good. Looking forward to a good weekend, need to talk to Heather and James soon. Not a lot of specifics today, just staying with my objective of posting more often-discipline, you know!!!!

Ed

1/27/05 06:55 am - Another Day

It is Thursday morning, January 27. Yesterday was a somewhat mixed day for me. Saw clients, one old, one new. That work went well. I didn't have any luck finding out what happened to by materials order from AAMFT - made a call to California, was put on hold and lost eventually. Will try again today. Set aside time to go to Kinkos (yes, FedEx, I know you bought the place), but its Kinko's to me. E-mailed the new logo to myself-hope they can access it from their location. Will get letterhead as well.

Went out to dinner with a friend last night. We went to Old Chicago for a sandwich. It was fun. Heard from Richard Wampler via e-mail yesterday. Good to hear from a colleague and friend from the past. He and Karen will be in KC in the fall for the AAMFT national conference. I will have them over for dinner - that will be good.

Will be working on advertising primarily today. I MUST finish the "101 Things You Can Do TODAY To Strengthen Your Marriage" article. This is a giveaway that I hope to have on a website soon, as a promotional freebie. A hardcopy giveaway. as well. Am about 1/2 done at this point. So much work to do!!!

Ed

1/24/05 07:01 pm

James, Kachina, Heather, Rachel, Theodore and I got back from Disneyland on January 7th. We spent 4 days there celebrating Loretta's life,as she asked me to do. We had so much fun revisitng the places we had been to before. Loved Pirates of the Carribean and all of the great rides. Teddy really liked Small World and gthe whole experience. We got some great pictures, maybe we can post some here.

The Center for Relationships development is coming along nicely. Have had our first clients in. Its good to make some money, we have been spending for some time! Bought a logo today from LogoYes. Hope to get business cards and letterhead done tomorrow.

10/23/04 04:52 pm - 1st Journal Entry

Rachel created this live journal for me, so I am not the only family member without one. My daughters Rachel and Heather and I went to the movies today. It was The Curse, based on a Japanese work of fiction, turned into a supposed horror movie. It was truly awful. Redundant, repetitive (yes, just like that) and very predictable. Most people laughed at the "scary" parts.

Anyway, we had a very nice lunch at the Red Snapper, so not a total loss!
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